Welcome to ToniCaggiano.com

I’m Toni — aspiring comedian, professional fat baddie, and your favorite loud-mouthed cousin / aunt / friend who tells it like it is. On TikTok, I built a community by mixing big laughs with bigger self-love, and now we’re taking that energy off the screen and into real life.

Here you’ll find:
🍝 Events & Toni Talks – Comedy meets aggressive self-love, live and in person.
🎥 TikToks & Clips – The viral moments you love (and the ones your mom shouldn’t see).
🛍 Merch & Goodies – Wear your baddie badge with pride.
💌 Community – Because we don’t just follow, we roll deep like family.

This is the home base for everything I have to offer. Whether you’re here to laugh, to feel seen, or to get hyped up for your next big move, you’re in the right place.

So grab a plate, pour a drink, and get comfy. You’re family now.

Talk to me nice.

Coming soon: the TTMN blog + the TTYN Journal

  • Home for the Holidays

    December 2025

    Wallingford, CT

    Date and time: TBD

    Come spend a night filled with fun, good food and drinks with me and my family. We will have raffles, games and the first ever Toni Talk.

  • Couples Cupcake Social

    February 2026

    Wallingford, CT

    Date and time: TBD

    When was the last time you and your partner did something fun? Come hang out with me and my husband! We will decorate cupcakes, offer a Q&A / discussion, and play communication games.

  • Spring Galentine's Day

    March 2026

    Middletown, CT

    Date and time: TBD

    An event for the Fat Baddies and the Femmes!

    We will spend some time pampering ourselves and working through pages of the upcoming Talk to Yourself Nice Journal.